Trying to be sane since 1991…

K is for Kainotophobia which means fear of change.

Change… before you have to!

Yes, quite a thought this one line can be right?

Who loves change? I certainly don’t.

It would mean letting go of few things that comfort me, that make life easy.
Correct. But at the same time, a change in my daily routine or the way I work or the way I react to situations might make me a better and efficient person.
You must change because you want to be better, not because someone or some situation forced you to change.

I learned few things the hard way and realized it was a waste of time. Now I wouldn’t do those similar mistakes again.
The classic example would be like in movies where the parents crib that their son/daughter wastes time and they keep asking him/her to change and be a good person. They don’t. Until a tragic accident or illness causes the parent/s to die and that’s what makes them realize what they need to do. That’s when they CHANGE.


K is for Kamerad which means to surrender.

Surrender can mean a lot of things. For today I’d like to use this concept as wasting an opportunity.
When there’s an opportunity do we grab it? Do we surrender need our need to use that opportunity?
What’s your take?

LF book

For me, there was a time I was so cautious that I would never take part in any activity. Go to school, attend the lecture and come home. Don’t take part in sports, dance, writing etc. So many opportunities have been missed that I can’t even count them.

I decided since 2015 that I would try my level best to live a life without regrets.
Trust me, since then I’ve been happier than ever. Sure I’ve had sad moments too but hey, that’s what life is full of… Surprises!

Never let go of every opportunity. Sure if it’s not your cup of tea then it’s cool. But if it was and you didn’t grab it, the regret shall haunt you. Don’t surrender, keep going!

I’d like to end my post asking you guys a question;

Do you think Change is needed or must we wait for something extreme to happen in order to change?

For my last year’s entry for the letter “K” CLICK HERE

This post is written as a part of A-Z challenge 2016 where bloggers from all around the world will blog for the whole month, daily based on all the alphabets in chronological order.


Comments on: "K is for Kainotophobia and Kamerad" (2)

  1. Change is definitely needed- at least in some aspects of life. Wouldn’t life be boring otherwise?
    And I liked what you said about grabbing the opportunities available to us.
    Nice words Lance 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

    • Hi Mish.. That’s how we must live.. Then it makes more sense.. And opportunities are just there. all we have to do is take them! Thanks for stopping by


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