Trying to be sane since 1991…

R is for Refocillate which means to refresh; to cherish.


Are you a person who likes to live in the moment rather than sit back one day imagining of the things which you should have done?
I belong in the first category. At least for majority of times. I believe we shouldn’t be wasting time over thinking. It’s best to be refreshed as long as you can.

Stressed at work? Take an overnight vacation/trek during the weekend.
Stressed with life? Meet your friends/family; anyone that can calm the hell out of you.
Like somebody? Just go ahead and ask him/her out. You have nothing to lose there!

The point in short is to cherish the moments. Don’t be the guy who says, “I should have travelled a lot; I should have done this/that etc.”
Be the guy who says “You know I just thought I must do this, so I did! And it was an amazing/saddening feeling”
Just do it. For overthinking and reflecting on life, there’s time!

R is for Repine which means to feel or express discontent or dejection.

I’d like to know if you’re a person who expresses their sadness state or just keep it within yourself until it eats you up?
I personally feel that if you have been hurt from someone very close to you, go ahead and let them know about it. There can be a possible rational explanation or it might have been unintentional or at worst, they meant to do that.

Its better that you let them know. Don’t keep such things in your heart. It’s too delicate to handle all such matters every day.
Just keeping things within yourself will then someday lead to a bigger fight, back biting etc.
Why go through so much trouble and give pain when all can be told at the earliest?
If you’re mad that your friend stood you up for over an hour, let him/her know that you’re angry.
Don’t be silent. Hints never work every single time. Be clear!


For my last year’s entry for the letter “R” CLICK HERE

This post is written as a part of A-Z challenge 2016 where bloggers from all around the world will blog for the whole month, daily based on all the alphabets in chronological order.


Comments on: "R is for Refocillate and Repine" (3)

  1. Wonderful. I agree with you and I also try to fall in the 1st category..Keep writing!! 🙂

    @bloggerabhi1 from

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